Autumn 1992 in Germany (and Europe):
The general population didn’t know what ‘gay’ meant: ‘Excuse me? Never heard of it!’ ‘A new fashion?’ ’What’s that supposed to be?’
And queer society at the time had no idea what ‘tantra’ meant: ‘A new church?’ ‘A sect?’ ‘A faith?’ ‘Spirituality – what is that supposed to be?’ ‘Massage? I don’t need that. I want sex!’
That was the beginning of GAY-TANTRA:
To personally create a framework in which I feel authentic as a person and can be who I am from the inside out; with all my talents, my creative power and desires for prayer, meditation, eroticism, sexuality, love, connection, mindfulness, intimacy and spirituality; a field in which I don’t have to pretend or put on a mask.
More than three decades have passed since then:
I have brought GAY-TANTRA to life, inspired thousands of men in Germany, Europe and North and South America in workshops and training sessions, launched 11 GAY-TANTRA teaching and guidebook DVDs in German, English and French, was the first to introduce tantra massages to a wide audience of men in 2010, published my first book in German in 2020 and in English in 2023, made my first guest appearance on an ORF2 talk show in 2024, challenged myself with my consistency, sustainability and tenacity, failed countless times and got back up again.
What remains? What have I learnt – about myself? About GAY-TANTRA? What endures? What helps today?
Experience an exciting evening with me, my experiences and yours!
All men and their friends are cordially invited!
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